Government, Social Media Users Show Love to 18-Year-Old Chisom Brutalised by Husband in Viral Video

 

An outpouring of support has continued to trail the case of 18-year-old Chisom, whose alleged abuse by her husband sparked widespread outrage after a disturbing video of her condition went viral on social media.

The video, which attracted national attention, prompted swift reactions from government officials, civil society groups, human rights advocates and concerned Nigerians, many of whom condemned the alleged abuse and demanded justice for the young woman.

Following the public outcry, government agencies and relevant authorities reportedly intervened to ensure Chisom received medical attention and protection. Women's rights groups and social welfare agencies also rallied around her, offering support, counselling and other forms of assistance as investigations into the circumstances surrounding the incident continue.

Across social media platforms, thousands of users expressed sympathy for Chisom, describing her ordeal as heartbreaking and calling for stronger measures to combat domestic violence and protect vulnerable women and girls. Many users shared messages of encouragement, prayers and financial assistance, while others volunteered resources to help her rebuild her life.

The wave of support has extended beyond emotional appeals, with several individuals and organisations offering practical assistance aimed at helping the teenager recover and regain independence. Among them are offers of employment, accommodation, mentorship and educational support designed to provide her with a fresh start and a pathway to a better future.

One supporter, seeking to connect with Chisom through those currently assisting her, offered to provide her with a job, safe accommodation and mentorship in financial empowerment. The supporter said the initiative would help her become financially independent while creating opportunities for her to continue her education and pursue her long-term goals.

"I would like to offer her employment, mentorship in financial empowerment and support that could help her continue her education and build a brighter future. I also have accommodation available should she require a safe place to stay during her recovery and transition," the supporter stated.

The individual appealed to Chisom's family, caregivers, support team and organisations involved in her rehabilitation to facilitate contact, stressing that the intention was to contribute positively to her recovery and future.

Advocates say the overwhelming response demonstrates growing public intolerance for domestic violence and reflects increasing awareness of the need to protect victims from abuse. They, however, stressed that beyond public sympathy, sustained support and effective prosecution of offenders remain crucial in ensuring justice and preventing similar incidents.

As Chisom continues her recovery, many Nigerians have expressed hope that the support she has received will mark the beginning of a new chapter in her life and serve as a reminder that victims of abuse are not alone.

CP Fatia assures residents , visitors of safety as Police Arrest 38 Foreign Nationals, Recover Firearms and Military Uniforms in Major Crime Crackdown

The Lagos State Police Command has intensified efforts to combat crime and strengthen security across the state, arresting 38 foreign nationals over suspected illegal entry while also recording significant breakthroughs against armed robbery, cultism, vandalism, impersonation and illegal possession of firearms.

Speaking during a press briefing in Lagos, the Commissioner of Police, CP Tijani Fatai, said the operations were part of the command's intelligence-led strategy aimed at preventing crime and safeguarding residents.

One of the major operations took place in Epe, where police operatives acting on credible intelligence raided a residential building occupied by a large number of foreign nationals. The raid led to the arrest of 38 individuals from Chad, Burkina Faso, Benin Republic, Mali, Togo, Cameroon and Ghana.

According to the police commissioner, preliminary investigations revealed that 18 of the suspects possessed valid ECOWAS travel documents, while 20 others could not provide evidence of lawful entry into Nigeria.

CP Fatai disclosed that the suspects were rescued from possible mob action before being taken into custody for profiling and further investigations. He added that the individuals would be handed over to the Nigeria Immigration Service and the relevant embassies for immigration processing and further inquiries.

The police chief also highlighted several achievements recorded by the command in June. He said operatives recovered 14 firearms, four live cartridges, an operational motorcycle, 51 mobile phones suspected to have been stolen from robbery victims, vandalised electrical cables and other exhibits linked to criminal activities.

Among the notable recoveries was an unregistered MAN diesel truck intercepted while conveying 47 sacks of military camouflage uniforms and 80 cartons of suspected illicit substances. Three suspects were arrested in connection with the shipment, which investigators believe was destined for the eastern part of the country.

The command also arrested suspected cable vandals, members of robbery syndicates, cult suspects and individuals allegedly impersonating military personnel. In separate operations, police recovered pistols, locally fabricated firearms and ammunition.

CP Fatai reaffirmed the command's commitment to sustaining the fight against crime and ensuring that all suspects are thoroughly investigated and prosecuted in accordance with the law.

He urged residents to continue supporting security agencies with timely and credible information, stressing that Lagos would remain hostile to criminal elements and those seeking to undermine public safety.

This version is structured for newspaper publication with emphasis on the police command's security operations and the arrest of the foreign nationals.

Delta CP, Immigration Comptroller Strengthen Security Partnership

 

The Commissioner of Police in Delta State, CP Yemi Oyeniyi, has reaffirmed the commitment of the Delta State Police Command to strengthening collaboration with sister security agencies as part of efforts to enhance security across the state.

The police commissioner made the commitment while receiving the Comptroller of the Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS), Delta State Command, C.I. Christiana Solo-Akora, and members of her management team during a courtesy visit to the Police Command Headquarters in Asaba on Tuesday.

The visit provided a platform for both security agencies to discuss ways of deepening cooperation, improving intelligence sharing, and enhancing coordinated efforts aimed at addressing security challenges and strengthening border management within the state.

Speaking during the meeting, CP Oyeniyi commended the Nigeria Immigration Service for its critical role in national security, particularly in migration control and border surveillance.

He noted that effective collaboration among security agencies remains essential in combating crime and other emerging security threats, stressing that the police command would continue to work closely with the Immigration Service and other stakeholders to ensure the safety of residents.

The commissioner emphasized that information sharing and joint operational strategies are vital to achieving lasting peace and security, adding that collective efforts by all security agencies are necessary to safeguard lives and property across Delta State.

Earlier, the Delta State Comptroller of Immigration, C.I. Christiana Solo-Akora, said the visit was aimed at strengthening the existing relationship between the Immigration Service and the Police, while exploring avenues for greater cooperation in the discharge of their statutory responsibilities.

The meeting ended with both agencies reaffirming their commitment to sustained partnership in support of national security objectives and effective service delivery to the people of Delta State.

CP Ojajuni Visits Scene of Slain Broadcaster, Orders Full-Scale Investigation

 

The Commissioner of Police, Ogun State Command, CP Bode Ojajuni, on Sunday personally visited the residence of retired Ogun State Television (OGTV) broadcaster, Kitan Oyesiku, where she and her security guard were found dead under suspicious circumstances.

The police chief's visit underscored the seriousness with which the command is treating the tragic incident that has sent shockwaves across Ogun State and the media community.

According to the Ogun State Police Command, the incident was reported at the Owode Egba Division after a resident of Iyana Agodo Village raised concerns over suspicious activities at the deceased's residence.

Following the report, detectives were deployed to the scene, where preliminary investigations revealed signs of forced entry and disturbance. During a thorough search of the premises, the body of the security guard was discovered inside the security post, while Ms. Oyesiku's corpse was later found in her apartment. Her vehicle was also found to be missing from the premises.

CP Ojajuni, who visited the crime scene to assess the situation firsthand, directed detectives to immediately commence a comprehensive investigation into the circumstances surrounding the deaths. He also ordered the deployment of intelligence and tactical assets to track down those responsible for the killings.

The Commissioner assured residents that the command would spare no effort in unraveling the mystery behind the incident and ensuring that all those connected with the crime are brought to justice.

As part of ongoing efforts, surveillance and intelligence-led operations have been intensified across relevant locations, while investigators continue to gather evidence and pursue leads.

CP Ojajuni expressed condolences to the family of the deceased broadcaster, the management and staff of Ogun State Television (OGTV), and members of the media community affected by the tragic loss.

He further appealed to residents to remain calm and cooperate with investigators by providing any useful information that could assist in the ongoing investigation.

The Ogun State Police Command said the investigation remains active and that updates will be provided as significant breakthroughs are recorded.

Rotarian Aledare Expresses Deep Gratitude for celebration of Son’s Naming Ceremony

 Rotarian Jude Aledare has expressed heartfelt appreciation to friends, family members, church leaders, associates, and well-wishers who supported and celebrated with them during the naming ceremony of their newborn son, Master Oluwadunsin.

The joyous event, held at RCCG Word of Life Parish, Redemption Camp, Mowe, Ogun State, brought together loved ones from different walks of life who gathered to offer prayers, goodwill messages, gifts, and blessings for the child and his parents.

Speaking after the ceremony, Rotarian Jude Aledare, a member of the Rotary Club of Ibadan Bodija Estate, said the family was overwhelmed by the outpouring of love, support, and kindness shown during the special occasion.

“With hearts filled with gratitude, we sincerely appreciate everyone who took the time to attend and grace the naming ceremony of our beloved son, Master Oluwadunsin. Your presence, prayers, gifts, goodwill messages, and overwhelming show of love made the occasion truly memorable and joyful for our family. We are deeply touched by your kindness and support and do not take them for granted,” he said.

Aledare noted that the presence of guests from within and outside the church community demonstrated the strong bonds of friendship, faith, and family that have continued to sustain the family.

He further offered prayers for all those who celebrated with them, asking God to reward their kindness with good health, peace, prosperity, and abundant blessings in their respective homes.

Members of the Rotary Club of Ibadan Bodija Estate joined other guests in congratulating the family on the arrival of their son. The club's secretary, Rotarian Patience Ogbo, described the occasion as a moment of joy for the Rotary family and prayed for God's continued favour upon the child and his parents.

The ceremony featured thanksgiving, special prayers, worship, music, and celebration, creating an atmosphere of joy and gratitude. Guests were treated to warm hospitality as they shared in the family's happiness.

For the Aledare family, the naming ceremony was more than a traditional event; it was an opportunity to thank God for the gift of a child and to acknowledge the invaluable support, prayers, and goodwill received from friends, relatives, church members, and the wider community.

The family reiterated its appreciation to everyone who contributed in one way or another to the success of the ceremony, describing the experience as a testament to the power of love, unity, and genuine friendship

Lagos IED Blast, Oyo School Abduction and Rising Attacks Test South-West Security as Police Intensify Crackdown

The recent improvised explosive device (IED) explosion in Lagos, the abduction of students in Oyo State, and a series of kidnappings and attacks on communities across the South-West have renewed concerns about the evolving security threats confronting the region.

For decades, South-West Nigeria enjoyed a reputation as one of the country's most secure regions. However, recent incidents in Lagos, Oyo, Ondo, Ekiti and neighbouring Kwara State have raised fears about the spread of criminal activities traditionally associated with other parts of the country.

The latest concern emerged in Lagos when an improvised explosive device concealed beneath a Toyota Sienna exploded shortly after the vehicle's owner started the engine in the Oke Mushin area of the state. The blast injured one person and destroyed the vehicle, prompting a major response from security agencies.

The incident occurred against the backdrop of increasing reports of kidnappings, attacks on rural communities, assaults on places of worship and violent crimes across the South-West.

In Oyo State, the recent abduction of students from a school further heightened public anxiety. Security experts warn that attacks on educational institutions could signal attempts by criminal gangs to expand kidnapping-for-ransom operations into the region.

Ondo State has recorded numerous attacks on farming communities and travellers, while the deadly attack on worshippers at a church in Owo remains one of the most shocking security incidents in the region's recent history. In Ekiti State, kidnappings, attacks on traditional rulers and violent assaults on rural communities have become recurring concerns. Kwara State has also witnessed a rise in kidnappings and attacks linked to armed groups exploiting forest corridors that connect the North and South-West.

Despite these challenges, security agencies have intensified efforts to stem the tide of insecurity through intelligence-led operations, arrests and the recovery of weapons and other security-sensitive materials.

A recent operation by the Lagos State Police Command underscored these efforts. Acting on credible intelligence, police operatives intercepted an unregistered MAN diesel truck allegedly transporting forty-seven sacks of military camouflage uniforms and eighty cartons of substances suspected to be illicit drugs.

Four suspects were arrested during the operation and taken into custody. Preliminary investigations indicated that the military camouflage uniforms were allegedly being transported to the eastern part of the country. Authorities have since launched further investigations to determine the source of the uniforms, their intended recipients and whether they were linked to criminal networks.

Security analysts say the recovery is significant because criminal groups have increasingly been known to use military-style uniforms to impersonate security personnel, evade detection and gain the confidence of unsuspecting victims during kidnappings, robberies and other violent crimes.

The arrest is one of several recent operations carried out by police commands across the South-West targeting kidnapping syndicates, armed robbery gangs and other criminal groups operating within the region.

In Oyo, Ondo, Ekiti and Kwara states, police and other security agencies have reported arrests of suspected kidnappers, the rescue of abducted victims and the dismantling of criminal hideouts located within forested areas. Joint operations involving the police, military, local vigilante groups and regional security outfits have also led to the recovery of firearms, ammunition and other items used in criminal activities.

Security experts argue that while the recent arrests and recoveries demonstrate the determination of law enforcement agencies to address emerging threats, sustained intelligence gathering and inter-agency collaboration remain critical to preventing criminal groups from gaining a stronger foothold in the region.

The growing insecurity has had significant social and economic consequences. Farmers continue to abandon farmlands due to fear of attacks, religious institutions have strengthened security measures, and communities across several states remain on high alert.

However, recent police successes, including the interception of suspected illicit consignments and the arrest of criminal suspects, provide some reassurance that security agencies are actively responding to the threats.

As investigations continue into the Lagos IED incident and other security breaches across the South-West, observers say the challenge before law enforcement agencies is not only to respond to attacks but also to prevent them through proactive intelligence operations and community engagement.

The incidents in Lagos, Oyo, Ondo, Ekiti and Kwara demonstrate that insecurity remains a serious concern in the South-West. At the same time, recent arrests, recoveries and ongoing security operations highlight efforts by the police and other agencies to prevent criminal elements from destabilising the region.

CP Bode Ojajuni hails Operatives Over Arrest of Six suspects over recovery of Firearms, Stolen Items

The Commissioner of Police, Ogun State Command, CP Bode Ojajuni, has commended officers and men of the Command for their professionalism, swift response, and commitment to intelligence-led policing following the arrest of six suspected criminals and the recovery of firearms, ammunition, stolen generators, and mobile phones in separate operations across the state.

The police chief gave the commendation after coordinated operations by the Violent Crime Response Unit (VCRU), Special Weapons and Tactics (SWAT) Unit, and the Ibafo Division led to significant breakthroughs in the fight against crime in Abeokuta, Wasimi, and Ibafo areas of Ogun State.

According to the Command, the operations resulted in the arrest of six suspects linked to generator theft, illegal possession of firearms, conspiracy, and receiving stolen property. Recovered exhibits included a pump-action rifle, a locally fabricated pistol, live ammunition, five generators, and nine Android phones suspected to have been stolen.

CP Ojajuni described the successes as evidence of the Command's renewed determination to ensure the safety and security of residents through proactive and intelligence-driven policing strategies.

"The achievements recorded by our officers demonstrate the effectiveness of timely intelligence gathering, rapid response, and teamwork in combating criminal activities across the state," the Commissioner stated.

He noted that the Command remains committed to sustaining pressure on criminal elements and ensuring that Ogun State remains hostile to all forms of crime and criminality.

The police boss particularly praised operatives of the VCRU for dismantling a generator theft syndicate operating within Abeokuta and its environs, leading to the recovery of several stolen generators and mobile phones.

He also commended the SWAT Unit for its swift action in recovering firearms and ammunition from a suspect accused of unlawful possession of weapons and alleged intimidation of residents in Wasimi and surrounding communities.

Similarly, CP Ojajuni lauded officers of the Ibafo Division for their prompt investigation and arrest of suspects connected to a vehicle parts theft network operating within the area.

The Commissioner assured residents that investigations into the various cases are ongoing and that all suspects would be prosecuted in accordance with the law upon the conclusion of investigations.

He further reiterated the Command's unwavering commitment to protecting lives and property, stressing that the police would continue to deploy intelligence, technology, and community partnerships to tackle emerging security challenges.

CP Ojajuni also called on members of the public to remain vigilant and support the police with timely and credible information that could assist in preventing and detecting crime.

"Our success in fighting crime depends largely on the cooperation of residents. We encourage members of the public to continue to share useful information with the police. Together, we can build a safer Ogun State for everyone," he said.

The Commissioner reaffirmed that the Ogun State Police Command would maintain aggressive operations against criminal networks and ensure that perpetrators of crime are brought to justice.

Baby Factory 2.0: Criminal enterprise keeps business going in plain sight by disguising themselves as legitimate social, religious, or family institutions ----How Criminal Networks Are Moving from Hidden Facilities to Marriage and Religious Covers to Traffic Babies

 

Criminal enterprises often survive by disguising themselves as legitimate social, religious, or family institutions. The most successful illegal operations are frequently those that operate in plain sight, hidden behind structures that appear lawful and socially acceptable.

Across Nigeria, particularly in the Southeast, there are growing concerns that the notorious "baby factory" phenomenon may be evolving into more sophisticated forms. Instead of operating from hidden compounds or secret maternity homes, some criminal networks are increasingly suspected of exploiting marriages, religious arrangements, family structures, and decentralized residential networks to conceal child trafficking activities.

The recent arrest of Pastor Harrison Charles in Anambra State over allegations involving multiple wives and the discovery of 11 babies in his residence has reignited public debate about the changing nature of baby factory operations in Nigeria. While authorities have not established any link between the pastor and baby trafficking, and investigations remain ongoing, the discovery has inevitably drawn comparisons with a criminal enterprise that has troubled parts of the country for more than two decades.

From Secret Facilities to Sophisticated Networks

Historically, baby factories operated as clandestine centres where young women—often vulnerable teenagers, victims of deception, or women facing economic hardship—were housed until childbirth. Their babies were allegedly sold through illegal adoption channels, trafficking syndicates, or individuals seeking children outside established legal procedures.

Over the years, security agencies have dismantled numerous such facilities across Anambra, Abia, Imo, Enugu, and Ebonyi states. Many operated under the guise of maternity homes, orphanages, rehabilitation centres, churches, or private medical clinics.

As law enforcement intensified crackdowns and public awareness increased, operators were forced to adapt.

According to security experts and anti-trafficking investigators, criminal networks have increasingly shifted from centralized facilities to dispersed structures that are harder to detect. Instead of gathering large numbers of pregnant women in a single location, some syndicates now allegedly operate through multiple residences, informal religious groups, unregistered childcare centres, and networks of intermediaries.

This decentralization significantly reduces the likelihood of attracting attention from neighbours, community leaders, or security agencies.

Marriage as a Cover

One of the more troubling developments identified in several past investigations is the alleged use of marriages and intimate relationships as operational covers.

Investigators have documented cases where women were reportedly recruited into relationships or marriages that outwardly appeared legitimate but were allegedly designed primarily to facilitate childbirth for illegal adoption and trafficking networks.

In such arrangements, women may legally cohabit with their partners, creating the appearance of conventional family life. The children born within these relationships can then be more easily concealed within family structures, making scrutiny by authorities less likely.

Unlike traditional baby factories, where large numbers of pregnant women living together often raised suspicions, family-based arrangements blend naturally into communities.

The result is a model that can operate openly while remaining largely invisible.

Religious Structures and Community Trust

Religious organizations traditionally occupy positions of trust within Nigerian society. Churches, mosques, ministries, and faith-based welfare programmes frequently provide humanitarian assistance to vulnerable individuals and families.

However, experts warn that the same trust can sometimes be exploited by criminal actors.

Past investigations into child trafficking operations have revealed instances where individuals used religious identities, charitable programmes, or spiritual authority to gain access to vulnerable women, facilitate recruitment, or shield suspicious activities from public scrutiny.

Importantly, the overwhelming majority of religious institutions operate lawfully and play critical roles in community development. Nevertheless, investigators caution that criminal elements occasionally exploit religious legitimacy as a protective shield against suspicion.

This reality makes investigations involving religious figures particularly sensitive, requiring careful examination of evidence while avoiding assumptions or prejudice.

Why Detection Is Becoming More Difficult

Security analysts describe the evolution of baby factory operations as a classic example of criminal adaptation.

When dedicated facilities became high-risk due to frequent police raids, perpetrators allegedly adjusted their methods by:

Distributing operations across multiple locations;

Integrating women and children into family settings;

Using informal caregiving arrangements;

Exploiting legal marriage structures;

Utilizing community and religious networks to avoid scrutiny.

The decentralization of operations means there may be no single facility to raid and no obvious concentration of victims.

Consequently, investigators increasingly rely on intelligence gathering, birth record verification, DNA testing, forensic documentation, financial tracking, and inter-agency collaboration rather than traditional enforcement methods alone.

Lessons from the Anambra Case

The allegations surrounding Pastor Harrison Charles have generated public concern because some reported elements—including multiple wives and numerous children within a private residential setting—appear superficially similar to patterns observed in previous trafficking investigations.

However, no evidence has yet been presented establishing any connection between the pastor and child trafficking activities. Authorities have emphasized that investigations remain ongoing, and conclusions should not be drawn prematurely.

The case nonetheless highlights the growing challenge facing law enforcement agencies: distinguishing between unconventional family arrangements, religious practices, consensual adult relationships, and potential criminal enterprises.

Achieving this distinction requires evidence-based investigations rather than assumptions

Woman Who Faked Kidnap Found in Delta Hotel with Lover, Four Arrested

 

BENIN CITY, June 8, 2026 – A married woman identified as Oluchi, who allegedly staged her own kidnapping and demanded a ransom of millions of naira from her family, has been found in a hotel in Delta State with her lover, according to the police.

The incident, which initially sparked widespread concern among family members, friends, and well-wishers, took a dramatic turn after investigators traced the case to a hotel in Ubiaroko, Delta State, where the woman was reportedly discovered in the company of a male companion.

Oluchi's family had earlier reported to the police that she was abducted in the Ikpoba Hill area of Ikpoba-Okha Local Government Area of Edo State. The alleged kidnappers initially demanded a ransom of N50 million before later reducing the amount to N20 million.

In a bid to secure her release, family members launched appeals for public assistance and mobilised support from friends and associates. Her daughter, Anita, who resides in Canada, was among those who publicly appealed for help and raised awareness about the supposed abduction.

However, police investigations reportedly uncovered a different narrative. A security source disclosed that investigators tracked the phone number of a suspect linked to the case and eventually located both the woman and her alleged lover at a hotel in Delta State.

"Police traced the number of the man to a hotel in Ubiaroko. They found the man and the woman together in the hotel and immediately took them into custody," the source said.

According to the source, the woman's husband was contacted by the police and informed of the development after arriving at the station.

The revelation has left the family devastated.

Speaking in an online video after learning of the outcome of the investigation, Anita expressed shock and disappointment, saying the incident had shattered the family's trust and reputation.

"My mum has been released. My mum is involved in this kidnapping case. I only did what I did to save my mom," she said. "The family is in shock. This is not right. This has shattered my family."

She added that no ransom was eventually paid and that funds raised during efforts to secure her mother's release would be refunded.

"We now know it was not a real kidnapping. The money is intact, and we are going to make a refund," Anita stated.

The incident also drew a reaction from the Harmony Ladies Club, a social organisation to which Anita belongs. In a statement circulated to members and journalists, the group expressed disappointment and described the alleged deception as a betrayal of the support extended to the family.

The club noted that its members had provided emotional, logistical, and financial assistance after learning of the reported abduction, believing that a genuine life-threatening situation existed.

"It is with a profound sense of betrayal that we have now discovered, through investigations, that the entire kidnapping incident was staged," the statement said.

Confirming the development, the spokesperson for the Edo State Police Command, Eno Ikoedem, said four persons had been arrested in connection with the case.

"I can confirm the incident and also let you know that four people have been arrested in connection with the incident," she said.

Police authorities have not disclosed the identities of the other suspects or the specific charges they may face as investigations continue.

The case has generated widespread reactions on social media, with many expressing sympathy for the woman's family while calling for appropriate legal action against those found culpable.

THE IMPACT OF ANGER, EMOTIONAL CONTROL, AND DEPRESSION ON LASTING RELATIONSHIPS: A COMPARATIVE STUDY OF SINGLE, MARRIED, AND DIVORCED MEN AND WOMEN

Abstract

The sustainability of interpersonal relationships is influenced by several psychological and emotional factors, among which anger, emotional control, and depression are particularly significant. This study examines how these factors affect relationship quality and longevity among single, married, and divorced men and women. Drawing upon Emotional Intelligence Theory, Attachment Theory, and Social Exchange Theory, the study explores differences in emotional regulation, coping mechanisms, and psychological well-being across relationship statuses. Through a comparative analysis of existing literature and empirical evidence, the paper highlights the role of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and social support in promoting healthy relationships. The findings suggest that emotional health is a stronger predictor of relationship success than marital status and that effective anger management, emotional regulation, and proactive depression management contribute significantly to relationship stability and satisfaction.

Keywords: Anger Management, Emotional Control, Depression, Emotional Intelligence, Relationship Stability, Marriage, Divorce, Mental Health

Introduction

The success or failure of interpersonal relationships depends not only on love, attraction, and commitment but also on the ability of individuals to manage emotions effectively. Emotional experiences such as anger, depression, and emotional distress are inevitable aspects of human interaction. However, the manner in which individuals regulate and respond to these emotions often determines the quality and longevity of their relationships.

Anger is a natural emotional response to frustration, disappointment, or perceived injustice. When managed constructively, anger can facilitate communication and problem-solving. Conversely, unmanaged anger can result in hostility, aggression, resentment, and relationship breakdown. Emotional control refers to an individual's capacity to regulate emotional responses and maintain composure during stressful situations. Depression, characterized by persistent sadness, hopelessness, and diminished interest in daily activities, can significantly impair communication, intimacy, and relationship functioning.

Single, married, and divorced individuals experience these emotional challenges differently due to varying life circumstances, responsibilities, and relational experiences. Singles often focus on personal development and future relationship preparation, married individuals navigate ongoing interpersonal and family demands, while divorced individuals frequently confront emotional healing and adjustment following relationship dissolution.

Understanding how anger, emotional control, and depression affect these groups is essential for promoting healthy, stable, and enduring relationships. This study therefore investigates the relationship between emotional well-being and relationship outcomes among single, married, and divorced men and women.

Literature Review

Research consistently demonstrates that emotional regulation plays a critical role in relationship satisfaction and stability. Emotional intelligence has been linked to improved communication, conflict resolution, and relationship maintenance. Individuals with higher emotional intelligence tend to experience healthier relationships because they can recognize, understand, and regulate their emotions effectively.

Studies have also shown that chronic anger contributes to increased conflict, emotional withdrawal, and reduced relationship satisfaction. Similarly, depression negatively affects communication patterns, intimacy, and mutual support between partners. Psychological distress often creates emotional barriers that undermine relationship quality and increase the likelihood of separation.

Gender differences have been observed in emotional expression and coping behaviors. Women are generally more likely to seek emotional support and communicate feelings openly, whereas men are often socialized to suppress emotional vulnerability. These differences influence how individuals manage emotional challenges and maintain relationships.

The literature further suggests that strong social support networks, healthy coping strategies, and effective emotional regulation are associated with greater relationship resilience and long-term satisfaction.

Theoretical Framework

This study is anchored on Emotional Intelligence Theory, Attachment Theory, and Social Exchange Theory.

Emotional Intelligence Theory

Emotional Intelligence Theory, proposed by Goleman (1995), emphasizes self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, motivation, and social skills. The theory suggests that emotionally intelligent individuals are better able to manage anger, regulate emotions, and maintain healthy interpersonal relationships.

Attachment Theory

Attachment Theory, developed by Bowlby (1969) and expanded by Ainsworth (1978), explains how early childhood relationships influence adult emotional behavior and relationship patterns. Secure attachment promotes emotional stability and trust, while insecure attachment may contribute to anger, emotional instability, and relationship difficulties.

Social Exchange Theory

Social Exchange Theory argues that individuals maintain relationships when perceived rewards exceed perceived costs. Unmanaged anger, emotional instability, and depression increase relationship costs and reduce satisfaction, whereas emotional support and healthy communication increase relationship rewards.

Together, these theories provide a comprehensive framework for understanding the emotional factors that influence relationship stability and longevity.

Research Questions

This study seeks to answer the following questions:

How does anger management differ among single, married, and divorced men and women?

What role does emotional control play in sustaining healthy relationships?

How does depression affect relationship quality and stability?

Are there gender differences in emotional regulation and coping strategies?

To what extent does emotional intelligence influence relationship outcomes?

How do social support systems contribute to emotional well-being and relationship success?

Research Hypotheses

H1: Effective anger management is positively associated with relationship stability and satisfaction.

H2: Higher levels of emotional control significantly predict healthier and longer-lasting relationships.

H3: Depression is negatively associated with relationship quality and relationship longevity.

H4: Individuals with higher emotional intelligence demonstrate superior emotional regulation and relationship outcomes.

H5: Strong social support networks reduce the negative effects of anger and depression on relationships.

Methodology

This study adopts a comparative descriptive research design based on existing psychological and sociological literature.

The target population comprises adult men and women categorized into three groups:

Single individuals

Married individuals

Divorced individuals

Data may be collected using structured questionnaires, interviews, and standardized psychological instruments such as the Beck Depression Inventory (BDI), State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory (STAXI), and Emotional Intelligence Scale (EIS).

Descriptive and inferential statistical methods may be employed to analyze relationships among variables and identify differences across groups.

Comparative Analysis

Single Men

Single men often enjoy greater independence in managing emotions. While some effectively channel anger into productive activities such as work and sports, others suppress emotional distress. Depression among single men may arise from loneliness, career pressures, and limited emotional support. Emotional maturity developed during this stage often contributes to healthier future relationships.

Married Men

Marriage introduces responsibilities involving spouses, children, and financial obligations. Married men must regulate anger carefully because emotional outbursts affect family members directly. Emotional support from spouses often helps reduce psychological distress and promote relationship stability.

Divorced Men

Divorce frequently generates feelings of rejection, betrayal, and loneliness. Many divorced men struggle with unresolved anger and depression. However, those who engage in emotional healing often develop greater self-awareness and stronger relationship skills.

Single Women

Single women commonly utilize communication, reflection, and social support to manage emotional challenges. Depression may result from loneliness, societal expectations, or relationship disappointments. Emotional stability developed during singlehood often enhances future relationship success.

Married Women

Married women frequently balance multiple responsibilities involving family, work, and caregiving. These demands require substantial emotional control and resilience. Emotional support and appreciation from spouses contribute significantly to relationship satisfaction and mental well-being.

Divorced Women

Divorced women may experience anger related to betrayal, abandonment, financial concerns, and disrupted family structures. Many actively pursue counseling and social support, contributing to increased resilience, self-awareness, and emotional growth.

Empirical Evidence and Case Studies

Case Study 1: Anger and Marital Stability

Gottman and Levenson's longitudinal research demonstrated that criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling significantly predict divorce. Couples who effectively manage anger and communicate constructively are more likely to sustain long-term marital satisfaction.

Case Study 2: Depression and Relationship Satisfaction

Whisman's research found that depression is associated with reduced relationship quality, increased conflict, and diminished emotional intimacy. The effects often extend beyond the individual experiencing depression and influence partners as well.

Case Study 3: Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Success

Brackett, Rivers, and Salovey reported that emotionally intelligent individuals experience healthier relationships, greater empathy, and more effective conflict resolution skills.

Case Study 4: Divorce Recovery and Emotional Resilience

Amato's research on post-divorce adjustment revealed that individuals who utilize counseling services and social support networks demonstrate stronger psychological recovery and healthier future relationships.

Discussion

The findings indicate that anger management, emotional control, and depression significantly influence relationship outcomes regardless of relationship status. Married individuals face ongoing relational demands requiring consistent emotional regulation, while divorced individuals often experience emotional recovery challenges. Single individuals have opportunities to develop emotional competence before entering long-term commitments.

The study further demonstrates that emotional intelligence serves as a protective factor that enhances relationship resilience and satisfaction. Individuals who effectively regulate emotions and communicate constructively are better positioned to navigate relationship challenges successfully.

The findings support Emotional Intelligence Theory, Attachment Theory, and Social Exchange Theory, all of which emphasize the importance of emotional functioning in determining relationship outcomes.

Recommendations

Promote emotional intelligence education and training.

Encourage healthy communication and conflict-resolution skills.

Increase access to mental health services and counseling.

Strengthen social support networks.

Provide relationship education programs through schools, religious institutions, and community organizations.

Encourage early intervention for depression and emotional distress.

Support further research on emotional well-being and relationship sustainability.

Limitations of the Study

The study relies primarily on theoretical and empirical literature rather than original field data. Cultural differences, socioeconomic factors, and individual personality characteristics may influence emotional experiences and relationship outcomes. Future studies should employ longitudinal and cross-cultural research designs to enhance generalizability.

Conclusion

The study concludes that anger management, emotional control, and depression are significant determinants of relationship quality and longevity among single, married, and divorced men and women. While each group faces unique emotional challenges, emotional health remains the strongest predictor of relationship success.

Individuals who effectively regulate anger, manage emotional responses, address depression proactively, and cultivate emotional intelligence are more likely to establish and maintain healthy, satisfying, and enduring relationships. Therefore, emotional well-being should be regarded as a fundamental component of relationship development, maintenance, and long-term stability.

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Dignitaries, Rotarians, Family Members Gather in Lagos as Rotarian Olalere Olabiran Marks Father's 20th Remembrance Anniversary

An atmosphere of remembrance, gratitude, and celebration filled the Fitjoy Event Centre in Agege, Lagos, on Saturday as Rotarian Olalere Olabiran hosted a well-attended ceremony to commemorate the 20th anniversary of the passing of his father, Alhaji Ibrahim Akanni Olabiran.

The event attracted an impressive gathering of dignitaries, Rotarians, family members, friends, associates, and well-wishers from across the country, all united in honouring the memory of a man widely respected for his integrity, humility, and commitment to community service. Among those present were members of the Rotary Club of Ibadan Bodija Estate, whose attendance further underscored the esteem in which both the late Alhaji Olabiran and his son are held.

Addressing guests at the ceremony, Rotarian Olalere Olabiran expressed profound appreciation for the overwhelming support shown to his family, noting that the continued presence of friends, colleagues, and associates two decades after his father's passing reflected the lasting impact he made during his lifetime.

"My father believed in honesty, hard work, discipline, and compassion for others. Twenty years after his transition, we continue to draw strength and inspiration from the values he taught us. We are grateful to everyone who has come to honour his memory," he said.

Tributes poured in from members of the Rotary Club of Ibadan Bodija Estate, who described the late Alhaji Olabiran as a man whose values and principles continue to live on through his children. They also commended Rotarian Olabiran for preserving and promoting the legacy of his father through his commitment to service and community development.

The President-Elect of the club, Rotarian Anya Chukwu, who represented the President, Rotarian Victor Giwa PHF, said the qualities demonstrated by Rotarian Olabiran in both his personal and Rotary life reflected the sound upbringing he received from his late father.

"Today, we celebrate a life that continues to inspire. The dedication of Rotarian Olalere Olabiran to Service Above Self reflects the values his father instilled in him. It is heartwarming to see so many people gathered to honour such a remarkable man," he said.

Another Rotarian observed that the impressive attendance at the remembrance ceremony was a clear indication of the respect and admiration the late Pa Olabiran commanded during his lifetime.

"When people are remembered two decades after their passing with this level of affection and admiration, it speaks volumes about the life they lived. Pa Olabiran left behind a legacy of kindness, integrity, and service," the Rotarian remarked.

Several guests also shared personal recollections of the deceased, describing him as a man of uncommon character whose contributions positively influenced many lives.

A longtime family friend, Chief Adewale Adebiyi, recalled that the late Pa Olabiran was widely respected for his wisdom, humility, and willingness to support others whenever the need arose.

"He was a man of wisdom and humility. He touched countless lives through his generosity and willingness to help others. His legacy remains alive in the lives of those he mentored and supported," he said.

Another guest, Mrs. Funke Adetunji, praised the late Pa Olabiran's dedication to family values, education, and community development, noting that his commitment to fostering unity remains worthy of emulation.

"Pa Olabiran was known for bringing people together. He believed strongly in unity, peace, and education. Many of the principles he stood for are still relevant today, and it is encouraging to see his family keeping those ideals alive," she said.

Members of the Olabiran family expressed gratitude for the remarkable turnout and thanked guests for standing by the family over the years. They described the occasion as both a remembrance of a beloved father and a celebration of the values he embodied throughout his lifetime.

The ceremony featured special prayers, thanksgiving sessions, musical renditions, tributes, and moments of reflection, providing guests with an opportunity to share testimonies about the positive impact the late Alhaji Ibrahim Akanni Olabiran had on their lives.

The event concluded with goodwill messages from dignitaries, Rotarians, friends, and associates of the family, who encouraged younger generations to embrace the virtues of integrity, hard work, humility, and selfless service that defined the life of the late Pa Olabiran.

For many in attendance, the gathering was not merely a remembrance ceremony but a celebration of a life of purpose, service, and lasting influence—a legacy that continues to inspire family members, friends, and the wider community twenty years after his passing.

Huge Turnout as Rotarian Olalere Olabiran Hosts Dignitaries, Rotarians and Guests at Father's 20th Remembrance Anniversary in Lagos

Rotarian Olalere Olabiran on Saturday June 6th  hosted a large gathering of dignitaries, Rotarians ,family members, friends, associates, and well-wishers at the 20th remembrance anniversary of his late father, Alhaji Ibrahim Akanni Olabiran, in Lagos.

The well-attended ceremony which held at the Fitjoy Event Centre at Agege area of Lagos state drew guests from different parts of Nigeria, including members of the Rotary Club of Ibadan Bodija Estate, reflecting the high regard in which the late Alhaji Olabiran was held and the enduring legacy he left behind. The impressive turnout also underscored the strong relationships and goodwill enjoyed by Rotarian Olabiran, as guests assembled to honour the memory of a man remembered for his integrity, humility, and service to humanity.

Speaking during the ceremony, Rotarian Olalere Olabiran expressed appreciation to all those who attended the remembrance service, noting that the continued support of friends, family members, and colleagues reflected the impact his father made during his lifetime.

"My father believed in honesty, hard work, discipline, and compassion for others. Twenty years after his transition, we continue to draw strength and inspiration from the values he taught us. We are grateful to everyone who has come to honour his memory," he said.

Members of the Rotary Club of Ibadan Bodija Estate paid glowing tributes to the late Pa Olabiran and commended Rotarian Olabiran for preserving his father's legacy.

The President Elect of the club , Rotarian Anya Chukwu who represented the President, Rotarian Victor Giwa PHF described Rotarian Olabiran as a true Rotarian , adding that his life is a result of the upbringing he received from his late father as a man whose influence could be seen in the character and commitment of his son.

"Today, we celebrate a life that continues to inspire. The dedication of Rotarian Olalere Olabiran to service above self reflects the values his father instilled in him. It is heartwarming to see so many people gathered to honour such a remarkable man," he said.

Another Rotarian noted that the large turnout at the remembrance ceremony was evidence of the respect the late Pa Olabiran commanded within his community and beyond.

"When people are remembered two decades after their passing with this level of affection and admiration, it speaks volumes about the life they lived. Pa Olabiran left behind a legacy of kindness, integrity, and service," the Rotarian remarked.

Guests at the event also shared fond memories of the deceased and praised the Olabiran family for sustaining his legacy.

A longtime family friend, Chief Adewale Adebiyi, described Pa Olabiran as a dependable community leader whose counsel was sought by many.

"He was a man of wisdom and humility. He touched countless lives through his generosity and willingness to help others. His legacy remains alive in the lives of those he mentored and supported," he said.

Another guest, Mrs. Funke Adetunji, recalled the late Pa Olabiran's devotion to family values and community development.

"Pa Olabiran was known for bringing people together. He believed strongly in unity, peace, and education. Many of the principles he stood for are still relevant today, and it is encouraging to see his family keeping those ideals alive," she said.

The Olabiran family members full of gratitude for the huge turn out at the event thanked guests for their continued support over the years and for joining the family in celebrating the life of their beloved father.

The remembrance ceremony featured prayers, thanksgiving, musical renditions, tributes, and moments of reflection as guests shared personal testimonies about the positive impact Pa Olabiran had on their lives.

The gathering concluded with goodwill messages from dignitaries, Rotarians, and friends of the family, who encouraged the younger generation to emulate the virtues of integrity, hard work, and selfless service for which the late Pa Olabiran was known.

For many in attendance, the event was not merely a remembrance but a celebration of a life well lived and a legacy that continues to inspire family members, friends, and the wider community twenty years after his passing.

"Ogun Will Not Be a Safe Haven for Criminals" — CP Ojajuni as Police Arrest Two Suspects Linked to Edo Kidnapping, Murder Case

 

Abeokuta, June 6, 2026 — The Commissioner of Police, Ogun State Command, CP Bode Ojajuni, has reiterated the Command's resolve to prevent Ogun State from becoming a hideout for criminals, following the arrest of two suspects allegedly linked to a kidnapping and murder case in neighbouring Edo State.

"Ogun State will not serve as a safe haven or transit point for criminal elements. We will continue to deploy intelligence-led policing, proactive security measures, and strategic collaboration with other state commands to ensure the safety and security of residents," the Commissioner stated while commending officers involved in the operation.

In a  statement issued by the the State  Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Oluseyi  Babaseyi,reveals that the suspects, identified as Gafaru Adamu, 25, and Muhammed Sanni, 20, were arrested in the Atiba area of Ijebu-Ode following intelligence-driven investigations by operatives of the Anti-Kidnapping Unit of the Ogun State Police Command.

According to the Command, the arrests followed earlier action by personnel of the Nigeria Forest Security Service, who initially apprehended the suspects. Subsequent profiling and investigations revealed that the duo are wanted in connection with an ongoing kidnapping and murder investigation in the Okada area of Edo State.

Police sources disclosed that preliminary intelligence indicates the suspects are members of a seven-man kidnapping syndicate allegedly responsible for the abduction and murder of two hostages in the Edo community.

During the investigation, operatives recovered a pair of police camouflage uniform and three mobile phones from the suspects. The items have been documented and taken into custody as exhibits to support further investigations.

The Ogun State Police Command noted that the alleged crimes were committed outside the state. In line with inter-state policing procedures, the suspects and all recovered exhibits will be transferred to the Edo State Police Command, which has jurisdiction over the case, for continuation of investigations and prosecution.

CP Ojajuni praised the professionalism, diligence, and intelligence-gathering capabilities of the officers whose efforts led to the identification of the suspects and the recovery of critical exhibits.

He also appealed to members of the public to remain vigilant and continue providing timely and credible information to security agencies, stressing that public cooperation remains vital in the fight against crime and criminality.

The development marks another significant step in ongoing efforts by law enforcement agencies to dismantle kidnapping networks operating across state boundaries and improve security across the country.

CANADA-BASED MAN ARRESTED OVER OVER ₦150 MILLION WORTH OF PROPERTY

 The Zone 2 Police Command has arrested a Canada-based Nigerian, identified as Olushola Ajayi Joshua, in connection with a burglary and stealing case involving properties worth more than ₦150 million.

The arrest was announced by the Assistant Inspector-General of Police (AIG) in charge of Zone 2 Command, Olohundare Moshood Jimoh, who described the operation as a major breakthrough in the Command's efforts to combat crime and bring offenders to justice.

According to the police, the suspect allegedly fled Nigeria for Canada shortly after the burglary case was reported in July 2025. Detectives attached to the Zone 2 Criminal Investigation Department subsequently launched an intensive investigation, working closely with the Nigeria Police Force INTERPOL Unit to track the suspect's movements.

Police sources revealed that through international collaboration, the suspect's passport was flagged, enabling law enforcement authorities to monitor his travel activities. The operation paid off when Olushola arrived at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport in Lagos, where he was apprehended by security operatives upon his return to the country.

Speaking on the development, AIG Jimoh commended the professionalism and dedication of the investigators involved in the case, noting that the arrest underscores the growing effectiveness of cooperation between the Nigeria Police Force and INTERPOL in tackling transnational crimes.

"This arrest is a clear demonstration that criminal elements cannot evade justice by fleeing the country. The Nigeria Police Force, in collaboration with international partners, remains committed to ensuring that offenders are tracked and brought to account wherever they may be," the AIG stated.

He further assured members of the public that the Zone 2 Command would continue to strengthen intelligence gathering and investigative capabilities to combat criminal activities across its area of responsibility.

The police authorities disclosed that investigations into the matter are ongoing, while the suspect is expected to face prosecution upon the conclusion of the investigation.

The Zone 2 Police Command reiterated its commitment to safeguarding lives and property, maintaining law and order, and ensuring that justice is served in all criminal cases.

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Gunmen Abduct Adelabu's Sister,twin daughters

Gunmen on Wednesday abducted the younger sister of former Minister of Power and leading All Progressives Congress (APC) governorship aspirant in Oyo State, Chief Adebayo Adelabu, alongside her twin sons in Ibadan.

The victims, identified as Mrs. Olaide Busayo Adegoke John-Paul, 43, and her 12-year-old twin sons, Peter and Paul, were reportedly kidnapped at about 7:30 a.m. while she was taking the children to school.

The incident was confirmed in a statement issued by Comrade Femi Awogboro, Media Aide to Chief Adelabu, on behalf of the family.

According to the statement, armed men intercepted Mrs. John-Paul and her children and whisked them away to an unknown destination.

Mrs. John-Paul is the youngest of the five children of Mrs. Olufunmilayo Aduke Adegoke Adelabu. She recently retired from service after working at the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) and First Bank Pension Custodian.

The statement disclosed that after her retirement last year, she relocated to Ibadan with her children while preparing to join her husband, Mr. John Paul, who had earlier moved to the United States of America.

The family said security agencies were immediately notified following the incident and had commenced investigations aimed at rescuing the victims and bringing the perpetrators to justice.

"We are pleased to confirm that security operatives have swung into action and preliminary investigations have commenced in earnest. Efforts are currently ongoing to ensure the safe rescue of the victims and the apprehension of those responsible for this heinous crime," the statement read.

Chief Adelabu and members of his family expressed deep concern over the abduction but maintained confidence in the ability of security agencies to secure the release of the victims.

The family appealed to members of the public to remain calm and avoid spreading unverified information that could undermine ongoing rescue efforts.

They also called on Nigerians to offer prayers and support during the difficult period and urged anyone with useful information that could assist investigators to promptly report it to the appropriate authorities.

The abduction has heightened concerns over insecurity in parts of Oyo State and renewed calls for stronger measures to combat kidnapping and other violent crimes.

As of press time, security agencies had yet to issue an official statement on the incident, while efforts to secure the release of Mrs. John-Paul and her children were continuing.

Fear and Tension Grip Oyo as Private Schools, business Shut Down Over Protests for Abducted Pupils, Teachers

 

IBADAN — Fear, uncertainty and growing public anger swept across Oyo State on Tuesday as several private schools shut down operations and businesses closed their doors amid sustained protests demanding the release of school children and teachers abducted in Oriire Local Government Area near Ogbomoso.

The protests, which began on Monday and continued into Tuesday, caused major disruptions across Ibadan, particularly around the University of Ibadan and the Oyo State Secretariat, where demonstrators occupied sections of major roads, resulting in hours-long traffic gridlock and forcing many commuters to abandon their journeys.

The demonstrations, triggered by the continued captivity of the abducted pupils and teachers, have heightened security concerns among parents, school owners and business operators, prompting precautionary closures of schools and commercial establishments across parts of the state.

A commercial driver, Mr. Tunde Michael, recounted the ordeal faced by motorists during the protests.

"The situation was serious. The protesters blocked the University of Ibadan gate and we the commercial drivers and others were held in traffic for hours. The situation only reduced by afternoon when the police came and urged the protesters to leave the road to the roadside."

Commercial activities were equally affected as traders at Bodija Market, Preboye Shopping Complex and the Agbowo axis shut down their businesses over fears that hoodlums might hijack the demonstrations.

Mrs. Joy Giwa, a trader in the city, said she remained indoors until reports emerged that the protesters had dispersed.

"I only opened my shop this afternoon because of the protesters. I stayed back in my house because I was scared of the situation. I need to be sure that all is well before I came out so as not to run into trouble. I only came out this afternoon when I received the news that the protesters had left."

The impact of the crisis has also spread to the education sector, with several private schools advising parents to keep their children at home until the security situation improves.

One concerned parent, Mrs. Monday, said her son's school informed parents that academic activities would be suspended from Wednesday.

"My son's school sent out a message that we should not bring our children to school from Wednesday because of the tense situation in the state. They told us to keep our children at home till Monday. I'm just worried about how this issue is resulting in such a big problem for everyone in Oyo State."

School proprietors said the decision was taken to safeguard pupils, teachers and support staff amid fears that the protests could escalate or create opportunities for criminal elements to operate.

The prolonged captivity of the abducted children and teachers has continued to generate outrage across Oyo State, with civil society groups, parents and education stakeholders demanding urgent action from security agencies and government authorities.

As tension persists, residents say their greatest concern remains the safe return of the victims whose ordeal has disrupted education, commerce and daily life across the state.

CP Bode Ojajuni Assures Ogun Residents of Safety, Debunks Banditry Reports in Ota, Ifo

T

he Commissioner of Police in Ogun State, CP Bode Ojajuni, has reassured residents that the state remains safe and secure, dismissing reports of alleged bandit attacks on schools and communities in Ota, Ifo, and adjoining areas as false and misleading.

Ojajuni, through a statement issued on Monday by the Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Oluseyi Babaseyi, said there had been no incident of banditry, kidnapping, terrorism, or any form of security breach anywhere in the state.

The Commissioner stated that reports circulating on social media alleging attacks on Oluke Community High School, Sango Ota High School in the Ijoko axis, Fadunsin Area of Ijoko, Atan-Ota, Sango-Ota, Agbado, Ifo, and neighbouring communities were entirely unfounded.

According to him, police operatives were immediately deployed to the affected areas following the circulation of the reports to verify the claims and reassure residents through confidence-building patrols.

He disclosed that the Command's School Protection Squad, working with Divisional Police Officers in the affected jurisdictions, conducted security assessments of the schools mentioned in the reports.

The exercise, he said, confirmed that all schools were safe, secure, and fully operational, with academic activities proceeding uninterrupted throughout the day.

"The schools remained peaceful and students as well as staff completed their academic activities without any disruption," the statement noted.

Ojajuni expressed concern over the anxiety generated by the spread of unverified information and urged residents to rely on official channels for security updates.

The Commissioner also clarified the circumstances surrounding the arrest of 38 foreign nationals in Kajola-Ilese, Atan-Ota, an incident which some social media users had allegedly linked to banditry.

According to the police, the suspects, comprising 19 males and 19 females from Côte d'Ivoire and aged between 25 and 35 years, were arrested following credible intelligence.

Preliminary investigations revealed that the individuals could not provide valid immigration or travel documents. They reportedly claimed to have entered Nigeria for online business activities.

The police explained that after preliminary procedures, the suspects were handed over to the Nigeria Immigration Service for further investigation and appropriate action in accordance with immigration regulations.

Ojajuni stressed that the operation had no connection whatsoever with banditry, kidnapping, terrorism, or any violent criminal activity.

"At no time during the operation were bandits, kidnappers, or terrorists arrested. Any attempt to link the arrested foreign nationals to violent crimes is false, misleading, and capable of causing unnecessary panic," the statement said.

The Commissioner reiterated the Command's commitment to the protection of lives and property across Ogun State, noting that intelligence-led operations, routine patrols, and other proactive security measures remain in place.

He urged residents of Ota, Ifo, Atan-Ota, Ijoko, Sango-Ota, Agbado, and surrounding communities to remain calm and continue their lawful activities without fear, assuring them that the security architecture across the state remains effective and responsive.

Ojajuni further appealed to members of the public to verify security-related information before sharing it, emphasizing that responsible communication is essential to maintaining public peace and confidence.

Editorial : Using Children as Bargaining Tools Must Stop

 

The recent kidnapping of children in Oyo State and their continued captivity have once again exposed a disturbing reality in Nigeria: the growing use of innocent children as bargaining tools by criminals, terrorists, and kidnappers. Nothing can be more reprehensible than turning children into commodities to be exchanged for ransom, political leverage, or criminal gain. It is a practice that violates every principle of humanity and undermines the very fabric of society.

For the affected families, each passing day is filled with anxiety, uncertainty, and despair. Parents are forced to endure the agonizing wait for news of their children while communities grapple with fear and insecurity. Yet, beyond the immediate pain lies a broader national concern. The continued use of children as hostages reflects a dangerous normalization of criminality and a weakening of the state's ability to protect its most vulnerable citizens.

Nigeria has witnessed a troubling rise in child abductions over the past decade. From the Chibok schoolgirls in 2014 to the mass kidnappings in Kankara, Jangebe, Birnin Yauri, and several communities across northern Nigeria, children have increasingly become targets for criminal groups seeking financial rewards or publicity. Schools, once regarded as safe havens for learning and development, have become scenes of terror and uncertainty.

The implications are far-reaching. Every child abducted is a child denied education, security, and the opportunity to enjoy a normal childhood. Many victims suffer severe psychological trauma, while some are subjected to forced labour, sexual exploitation, or recruitment into armed groups. Families often face financial ruin as they struggle to meet ransom demands, while communities lose confidence in the ability of government institutions to guarantee their safety.

The kidnapping of children should never be treated as an ordinary crime. It is an assault on the future of the nation. A society that cannot protect its children places its own future at risk. The persistent targeting of children discourages school attendance, weakens human capital development, and deepens social instability.

Government must therefore move beyond routine condemnations and demonstrate greater urgency in addressing this menace. Security agencies require improved intelligence capabilities, better equipment, and stronger coordination to prevent abductions before they occur. Schools and vulnerable communities must be provided with adequate protection, while those responsible for kidnapping children must face swift and severe punishment under the law.

At the same time, efforts to combat poverty, unemployment, and social exclusion must be intensified. While these factors do not justify criminal behaviour, they contribute to an environment in which kidnapping and banditry flourish. Long-term solutions must therefore combine effective security measures with meaningful socio-economic reforms.

The private sector, civil society organizations, religious bodies, traditional institutions, and community leaders must also play active roles in safeguarding children. Protecting children is not solely a government responsibility; it is a collective obligation shared by all stakeholders in society.

The children currently held captive in Oyo State, and countless others who have suffered similar experiences across Nigeria, deserve more than sympathy. They deserve freedom, protection, and justice. Their plight should serve as a wake-up call to a nation that can no longer afford to treat child abduction as another headline that will soon be forgotten.

Using children as bargaining tools must stop. It is a stain on our collective conscience and a threat to our national future. Until every Nigerian child can go to school, sleep at home, and move freely without fear of abduction, the country still has much work to do in fulfilling its most fundamental duty—the protection of its children.